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I was born in the Seychelles.
Cecile’s Day, 22nd November.
So Mum called me Cecile.
Cecile Therese.
But at home I was called
by everybody, Mum and Dad too,
Therese.
I was never called Cecile at home.
I was very, very respectful
to my Dad and Mother.
My mother was a Hickey.
H-I-C-K-E-Y.
From America.
North America over there.
My father was Joseph Savy.
Dad was an administrator.
So he had to go away to administrate
all those works so Mum had to go with him.
But we stayed with Grandma.
My grandmother was Deila.
Everywhere she went, I went with her.
And Aunty, Mum's younger sister.
We lived in a place in the north
"of the island that was called
Anse Etoile."
So we had school there.
Catholic school.
"We had a Governor.
An English Governor. "
Yeah.
He asked for all the schools
to give the children
something to write about
and to see which one was the best.
The Queen sent her
commendation.
So we had to go to the Government House
"to receive that commendation
from the Governor."
And we had a property,
so we had pigs on the property.
We had chicken.
Fowls anyway.
Ducks.
All those on our property.
We had fish Monday, Tuesday.
Wednesday we had salt meat or something.
Then on Sunday we had a roast.
Actually, to tell you, we had servants.
Paid so much a month for them to
to do the work.
"And these are the black people
that we employed."
Yes. So they are very very nice.
"Yeah, we had a young boy,
just a bit older than me."
Ned.
But he was a very nice,
very nice young man.
Very respectful.
Oh yes.
We had friends.
I had two brothers.
My big brother, Phillip.
"Every Saturday afternoon
we had friends coming for bingo."
They played bingo.
Dominoes.
We went swimming.
Play on the beach.
It was a good life.
It was a lovely, lovely island living.
Oh, I don't know...
I had a French one
that Dad used to sing.
Viens, le soir descend.
My first crush.
Mum
buggered that for me.
His name was Hoareau.
Channel Hoareau.
He was working in the hospital.
This young man
was working in the hospital.
He fell in love with me.
He fell in love with me
and so I did I with him.
But
Mum...
Mum forced me to marry this other man
"because he was working
in the Electric Light Company."
To start with, I was too young
to marry a man that age.
He was much older than me.
I didn’t love that man.
Didn’t love that man, I had nothing.
And he was not my my type.
"You know when you marry somebody,
you have to be the same type."
Somebody you can connect with!
But I could not with that man.
I should never have married this man.
I told Mum,
“Don't force me to marry this man”.
He was forcing himself on me.
"Every morning
he would go to the market and send"
a big bag of provisions
from the market to Mum.
Yes. Flattering Mum for him to get me.
Yeah.
The young one was there for me.
"If I had married that little boy,
we would have had a good, good marriage."
I met his mother.
She said to me,
she said,
“Ah, there goes ma petite fille”.
‘Ma petite fille’ means ‘my little girl’.
Put her arms around me.
She said, “Ah, my dear girl.
You broke my son’s heart”.
Then I thought I broke mine too.
Not only his but mine too.
Can you believe that?
"But every word had gone from
my mouth is the truth."
And we both cried.
And I did marry the wrong one.
This morning I had a cry.
I had a cry this morning.
All of my long life has escaped me.
Sometimes I think I should have had
a much, much nicer, younger life,
you see.
Yeah.
So?
And we had to...
"We were very,
very obedient to our parents."
That's the trouble.
"We had to accept all that
our parents wanted us to do."
That's the problem.
"We would not make a
decision on our own."
We were too obedient.
In my time we were too obedient.
If Mum said something, that was it.
We could not say ‘no’.
But Dad, Dad was not like that.
But it was hard on us.
Hard on us.
Really hard on us.
I've got three children.
Always ‘M’:
Margaret, Marlene and Michael.
But they were good.
I had nine years...
We had nine years in the Seychelles,.
Yeah.
We were coming to Australia.
He died just before we came.
I came home from work one day.
Mum told me,
“He has been very sick all day”,
I looked at him.
His face was yellow as anything.
"I said to him,
“You have to go to hospital."
Why didn’t you go to hospital?”
The doctor said he should have come,
before.
Anyway, he passed away.
"So, I wrote to his mother
in England to tell her."
She told me, “By all means...”.
I will never forget those three words,
“By all means,
take the children to Australia
" because that's
what their father would have wanted”."
And I had a sister here with her family.
So I came here.
But I [was] alone.
No man in my life.
No husband, with three young children.
Two girls and one boy.
My mother came
to Australia with me
but Dad was
losing his eyes
so he didn't want to come.
I said, “Come on, Dad, come with me”.
"So he stayed with my brother
in Seychelles."
Otherwise I would have taken him with me.
I loved my father.
I made my own passport too.
"Yes, because I was the Chief
Passport Officer."
"You know how many people here,
Seychellois,"
"that are still holding
the passport made by me?"
"Sometimes I think
maybe if I had stayed at home,"
"I had my property,
a big five bedroom house,"
"coconuts to sell, cinnamon leaves
to sell, "
all those things.
And I had a good job at government.
Yeah.
"I was a chief immigration officer
at a good wage."
"The government had put so much money
in the bank"
as a gratuity for me, so I was okay.
I think myself, I made decisions too fast.
Her name is Letizia. My sister.
We went everywhere.
They took us over the ship
to see this
and that and that and that.
They took us on shore
to see where we stopped.
We had a wonderful time.
Thanks To
Lisa Biviano
Cecile Hibbs
"It was a lovely, lovely island living"
A century of Unrequited Love
A 102-year-old with a story that spans continents and decades. Born in the idyllic Seychelles to French and American parents, Cecile’s early years were filled with idyllic island memories. Her life took a pivotal turn when she married an older man chosen by her mother. After the passing of her husband, Cecile embarked on a brave new chapter, moving to Australia with her three young children.
Age in Video
102 yearsDate of Birth
22nd November 1922Place of Birth
Seychelle Islands, SeychellesThanks To
Lisa Biviano